Struggling through the breakup, after all your expectations for a life full of lasting love with your guy were torn to pieces, is a shocking reality. You pictured yourself growing old with this man, and always thought there’d be love. You still remember all the amazing memories vividly in your mind, like sweet romantic movies playing over and over. Then a his faint words that you thought would never come. “I don’t think we were meant to be together”. If this sounds vaguely familiar to what happened in your life, and you want to know if you can still bring him back. Here are tips given by relationship experts for getting your ex-boyfriend back.
Don’t Go After Him-
“What?” You say. You are probably thinking there’s no way to get him back without chasing him. Well, you won’t get him back, by running after him begging, and pleading for his love and forgiveness. You have to do the complete reverse. Make him believe you don’t care about him, and ignore him. Stay away from him, including absolutely NO CONTACT for two weeks. And I mean that! I know this seems ridiculous and impossible, because you are all wrapped up in emotions screaming at you to convince your man that you are meant for each other and the love you share is strong enough to keep you together. Those are your emotions, and they will get you in trouble right now if you listen to them.
I know you are scared, because you are afraid you might lose him forever, and you’re panicking because you think that unless you stay in his mind, he will find someone else.
DO NOT worry. Take a deep breath, and calm down for a moment. Tell me why you don’t want to lose him? Why, because you miss him and you want to have him back. So wouldn’t he be feeling the same way as you right now? You are not the only one feeling emotional remember that. It’s not like the time you spent together will be erased from his memory forever. He was unhappy about something that happened, enough to cause you to hurt.
Don’t you think that this is a way of showing you that something you were doing wasn’t working and something needs to change so he will be happy with you again?
Think About The Problem-
If you want to bring him back and get your ex-boyfriend back. Try digging deep into yourself and the relationship. Think about what was bothering and upsetting your ex. Now fix this problem and resolve the situation. You may have seen the two of you in a tuxedo and wedding gown, cutting the big white cake together. This might have made you forceful to make him commit to you. This tends to happen a lot when things are going well. The women are thinking about kids, a house, and living the rest of their life with him. While he thinks about bills and more responsibilities. And he gets scared to death. This can make any guy run away.